Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Family Discourse (B)

B. Think back on a decision you made as a young adult with or without the help of your family. As you describe this moment of decision making, think about the mood of the moment. Find a series of images or a YouTube video that evoke that mood and briefly explain why you choose that image/video.




My junior year of high school, I made a decision that would define the rest of my life, and I made it entirely without the help of friends or family. I chose to attend the University of Florida and compete for the tennis team there. My mother and father were both pushing for me to select one of the more academic options available, such as Stanford or Duke, but I knew that tennis was my passion. I wouldn't be happy anywhere that wasn't constantly pushing me to the limits of my game, and honing my skills as an athlete. It took me about a month to make this life-altering decision, and it was an emotional and stressful time. Options were rolling around in my mind and coaches were trying to sway me one way and then the other. However, during this time, I was competing in professional tournaments. I was doing well and wanted to win more desperately each day. I was in competition mode, and the only thing on my mind was getting better and reaching the top. This video is an appropriate representation of my mood and focus during my decision-making process. This clip shows not only the focus of the players, but also the passion that all players share for the sport. I chose the University of Florida because of my desire to be the best tennis player that I could be. My passion and drive were deciding factors, and my faith in the program here sealed the deal.

2 comments:

  1. First, HUGE CONGRATULATIONS on your recent win!! I tried getting everybody in class to send you a million emails to congratulate you, but they weren't buying it. It's okay. I'll bring you something special this week :)

    Anyway, I wonder if you have any plans to continue this sport after college? I know you had mentioned your interest(s) in business/law/English. Is that your plan B and are you here really to go pro? Just wondering, as I'm really, really unsure of the sport world, haha.

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  2. I'm so happy to read that you followed your heart and not the influential opinions of your peers and family members. It is truly inspiring that you have discovered your passion in life at such a young age. Although you may endure many trials and tribulations during your tennis career at UF, I hope you continue to pursue your dream with pride and dignity.

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